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Why You Should Have Sex Before Marriage?

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Yeah, I know, sex is a big deal and it comes with a lot of responsibilities. No one should be having sex till they can fully be accountable for their actions. With sex, you have to be fully prepared as it can emotionally tie you down with the wrong person, lead to unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and so many other terrible consequences. With all of that, it is enough to say that you should put off sex till you get married but sex before marriage also has its advantages.

Listed below are some of the reasons why you should have sex before you get married:

1. Having sex with just one partner your whole life?

Now where the fun in that? This does not make for very exciting girlie gossip! Now this maybe ok for the likes of Romeo and Juliet or Cinderella. But the fact of the matter is one person your whole life is a waste of sexual prowess. I’m not saying spread yourself too thinly around the estate, but kiss a shirt and shoes combo’s until you know what you actually like.

2. To Find out If You’re sexually Compatible With Your Partner

Sex is very important in every marriage. In fact, it is one of those things that keep a relationship alive. And where there is no chemistry between couples, their sex life is automatically going to be dead. The woman feels like the husband is forcing her against her will and the man feels like he is being starved. Having sex before marriage helps you to discover if he is the kind of man you want to be romantically involved with for the rest of your life. It helps you eliminate, to an extent, the sexual drama that comes in many relationship.

3. To Discover sexual Related Problems And Solve It 

There are so many people that get the rudest shocks of their lives on their wedding night. They find out their husband is impotent or the wife has one disease or the other. Having sex before marriage helps you to tackle issues like this way before your wedding night. The fact that you both can solve something as intimate as sexual related health issues means you both have formed a bond really great that will be helpful in the future when you both get married.

4. For sexual Experience

It is undeniable that sex before marriage will make you a sex expert in most cases though and this will help you have a better sex life when you’re married. After all, you would have tried out different sex styles and discovered which you’re comfortable with and which you’re not comfortable with. It becomes easier to learn more about your partner’s sexuality and share experiences together, creating even a better bond between you guys.

5. It Is Healthy And Natural

Sex is very healthy and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, sex is a good way to keep your immune system humming, boost your libido, lower blood pressure, improve women’s bladder control and it is a good form of exercise to shed some weight. So, sex is an awesome way to keep your body in shape.

6. What if you have chosen the wrong sex?

You wait all this time to marry the man of your dreams and find the one only to realise its chicks you like instead. You haven’t experienced your sexuality in your 20’s like you are supposed to! If you have never tried kissing or being with someone of the same sex (or anyone for that matter) how do you know that you’re sure that’s what you like? Sexuality is a minefield in the lead up to adulthood, experience as much as you can before you get married as once you’re married its frowned upon to be sleeping with your best mate apparently.

7. Size

Look I’m sorry but unless you have experience a few altercations with the odd small fry then you’re not going to know how to handle it. Now I’m not saying bigger is better, not at all, it’s just that some questionable sizes may need a little more maneuvering than others. It’s always nice to have a little warning before you marry into the goods. Instead of getting down on your wedding day.

I know some may feel these are not strong points enough to have sex before getting hitched. In fact, I’m not advising anybody to. All I’m saying is sex is not a terrible thing. You have the right to explore your sexuality without feeling guilty. If you want to have sex with your partner, make sure it is because you want to and not because you’re pressured to. Once you can take full responsibility for your actions and you’re ready to bear the consequences that is attached with premarital sex, you’re free to have all the sex you want.

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